قد يبدو أن الموضوعان مختلفان ولكن ان أمعنا النظر في القصه التي سأرويها سنجد الرابط...
في عهد الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم كان هناك صحابي يدعى جليبيب ذهب الى النبي وسأله هل لا يدخل الجنه قبيح الشكل فغضب النبي وقال له لا،وسأله لما تسأل قال لأني كلما تقدمت لطلب خطبة أحد أقابل بالرفض فدله النبي على بيت وقال له اذهب اليهم وقل لهم أن الرسول يأمركم بتزويجي ابنتكم.
فذهب جليبيب وقرع الباب فسأله أبو البنت ماذا تريد فقال له ماقاله له الرسول فقال:ألم يجد الرسول من هو أفضل منك فسمعته زوجته فقال لها ما قاله جليبيب فردت بنفس الإجابه فإذا ابنتهم سمعت ماقاله فردت كيف لنا أن نرد أمرا لرسول الله ووافقت.
وفي الوقت الذي كان جليبيب يعد منزل الزوجيه فإذا به يسمع مناديا للجهاد لغزوة أحد، فقال في نفسه أن لو الرسول علم برغبته في الذهاب للجهاد سيمنعه وسيفضل زواجه فذهب وهو ملثم حتى لا يعرفه أحد فقتل.بعد انتهاء المعركه سأل الرسول أصحابه سمو لي قتلانا أي أراد أن يعرف أسماء الشهداء ، فلم يسمع منهم اسم جليبيب وقد كان هو يشعر بأن جليبيب قد ذهب للجهاد فأمرهم بأن يبحثوا عنه فقالوا له وجدناه وقد قتل 7 من المشركين فحزن عليه الرسول ودفنه بنفسه ودعا للتي كانت ستتزوجه بأن لا تشقى أبدا في الدنيا وبالفعل كانت من أغنى النساء بعد ذلك.
الشاهد في هذه القصه والتي استوقفتني كثيرا لما فيها من عبر جمه تخص حاضرنا، هل مازال هناك فتيات يردنا من يرضونه دينا وخلقا أم أن المظاهر أعمت أعيننا؟ كم هي الأوامر التي أمرنا بها الرسول ونحن نتخاذل عن تنفيذها؟وهذا الشاب جليبيب الذي عان من الرفض ولما قبل آثر الجهاد عن شهوته الداخليه، هل مازال هناك شباب يضحون بشهواتهم امتثالا لأوامر الله أم هذا شئ نادر، ولكني أعتبره فاز بالإثنين الجهاد والزواج لأن هناك حديث يقول أن الله يزوجه باثنتين وسبعين من الحور العين هنيئا له وهنيئا لكل شهدائنا في غزه وغيرها.

أشعر بملل وخوف في نفس الوقت قد يكونان نوعان من المشاعر المختلفه عن بعضهما ولكنهما يلازمانني،شعرت بالحزن فوجدت نفسي أشرع بالكتابه للتنفيس عما بداخلي لست مهتمه بأن يقرأها أحد ولكنها الطريقه التي اعتدت عليها منذ الطفوله لقول مالا يقوى لساني عن التفوه به، لست أزعم بأن عندي مشكله جمه وأعلم بأن العالم مليء بما هو أهم ولكن أحيانا تكون مشاكلنا الصغيره ناقوس خطر لمشاكلنا الكبيره.
لم أكن أعلم أننا كلما كبرنا وزادت مسؤلياتنا نحتاج الى من يحتضننا وأقصد بالحضن المادي والمعنوي ،أحيانا أرغب في البكاء دون أن أدري أسبابه يعلوني صراخ داخلي عميق، ومشاعر تئن مشتاقه نعم مشتاقه ولكن الى من تشتاق أسأل نفسي في اليوم مائة مره ماالذي أفتقده لما أشعر بأن جزء مني مفقود بالرغم من النعم الكثيره التي أنا فيها والحمد لله...
تأتيني الإجابه الصحبه الصالحه نعم أحتاج الى من يشد أزري من يكون عكازي اذا وقعت من يهرع بمسح دمعي من ينهرني ويمدحني،أحتاج الى نفس تصاحبني على حلوي وعلى مري...
نفتقد هذه الأيام الى رفيق الدرب سواء لإنشغالناأو للأننا لم نعد نعرف ماهو الصواب وماهو الخطأانقلبت موازين الحياه واختلت ،ومعها نتأرجح ولكني تعبت أشتاق لنفسي أشتاق لزهدها، لصفائهاأشتاق للبراءه التي كانت عليها أشتاق لعدم معرفتي بأي شئ في هذا العالم.
أشتاق الى حبك ياالله ولا اود أن يشاركني أي حب آخر فيه أعلم أن ماأنا فيه بسبب بعدي عنك فسامحني فرحمتك ارجو وعفوك سبق كل شئ أنزل السكينة في قلبي واجعل حبك يغمرني.

كثيرين من هم يعتقدون بأن الزواج هو نهاية الحلم، لكن من تجربتي الشخصيه فهو بدايه لمشوار قد تحفه المصاعب والعثرات ولكن في النهايه نجد أنفسنا في آخر الطريق وتلك الإبتسامه تعلو شفتينا فرحا بالنتيجه التي حققناها ، أجمل ما في الزواج هو تخلينا عن الأنانيه البشريه تلك السمه التي توجد بداخلنا، أحلى اللحظات هي تلك التي تمد بها يدك للشريك حتى تحثه على متابعة المشوار بلا كلل أو ملل وفي نفس الوقت تشعر وكأنه هو الآخر يود أن يطمئنك بأن القادم هو الأفضل.
قد لانتحدث قد لانتشارك ولكن مازالت لغة العيون لها سحرها في قراءة ما بين الشفاه ، قد لايجيدها كلانا ولكن صدقوني بعد مرور الوقت سيصبح الشريك قادر هو الآخر على فهم تلك الإشارات.
وقمة الزواج في ثمرته اليانعه التي تزهر كل يوم وتبعث فينا الإشراق والأمل ، فالأولاد نعمه قد لايشعر بها الكثيرون خلال مشوار حياتهم ويدركونها بعد ابتعادهم عنهم ولكني قررت أن أستمتع بكل لحظه تشرق فيها زهرتي الجميله وأن أعطيها الحب كله ولا أكترث لمصاعب الحياه أو التربيه وأجعل من أيامنا بيت من العسل نستسقي منه كيفما نشاء.

Young Consumers' Guide to Eco-Friendly Living


UNEP and UNESCO Announce a New and Updated Edition of the Popular YouthXchange Training Kit. Paris/Nairobi – October 1st, 2008.

How to balance looking cool and feeling cool with the need to combat climate are among the key tips in the new United Nations YouthXchange Training kit. This updated version of the guide also gets to grips with the mountains of waste emerging across the globe as a result of today's fast throw-away society from mobile phones to fashion.

The 2008 Training Kit on Sustainable Consumption, produced by the UN Environment Programme (UNEP) and the UN Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization (UNESCO) is now in its second edition. YouthXchange is a train the trainer tool that aims to promote sustainable consumption patterns among young consumers worldwide. Among other novelties, this updated guide includes a chapter on how to find a balance between youths' consumer aspirations of dressing cool and fashionable while at the same time being aware of the impact of their consumption on, for example, climate change.

"YouthXchange is one of the most important youth activities connected to UNEP's sustainable consumption and production work - it provides us with content that we are able to convey to other young people, empowering them to make different choices in their daily lives and be actors of change," says Gabriela Monteiro, a UNEP Tunza Youth Advisor.

Young people today establish their identities through what they buy and seek social inclusion by purchasing the newest and "coolest" products on the market. Yet, when unguided, this consumption contributes to problems such as ozone depletion, climate change and hazardous wastes that not only affect our daily lives but impact the entire globe. Through their daily actions, people can increasingly reduce their environmental impact. Well aware of this, UNEP's Division of Technology, Industry and Economics (DTIE) and UNESCO decided to update the 2002 guide to include today's trends. It provides statistics, case studies, games, examples of companies going greener, and alternatives for more sustainable lifestyles. New to the guide are the following features: a clear link between our consumption patterns and climate change, a more substantial e-waste section, updated data and scientific information and two new chapters: one on the UN Decade on Education for Sustainable Development and one on fashion.

Fashion feeds a growing industry and ranks textiles and clothing as the world's second-biggest economic activity for intensity of trade[1]. However, human rights and the environment pay a heavy price – a price that people can increasingly choose to lessen with the rise of ethical fashion. Achim Steiner, UN Under-Secretary General and UNEP Executive Director, said: "Young people in developed and rapidly developing economies can play a massive part in fighting climate change while being cool and keeping the planet cool too". "Through their purchasing patterns, life-style choices and networks with schools and universities to clubs, the music scene and sports they can also influence the wider world—influence that will be vital for moving communities, companies and countries to back a new UN climate change deal in Copenhagen's UN Climate Change Conference in 2009" he added. "This initiative, which fits within the framework of the UN Decade of Education for Sustainable Development (DESD, 2005-2014), seeks to raise the awareness of young people and make responsible consumers of them," said Koïchiro Matsuura, Director-General of UNESCO "Buying a product, what ever it is, is never a neutral act for the environment; its production, its use and the management of the waste it generates, all impact – to a greater or lesser degree – on our planet." Through YouthXchange, UNEP and UNESCO work together to show young people that it is possible to translate our aspirations for a better world into everyday actions. YouthXchange has been translated and adapted in 19 languages and is available in a bilingual (English and French) website – www.youthxchange.net.


Notes to editors: For the 2008 YouthXchange version, please visit: http://www.youthxchange.net/main/english-guide.asp. The UNEP Tunza Programme seeks to engage and involve young people through awareness creation, information exchange and capacity-building and through involving them in environmental decision-making processes globally and in the regions.

For more information on UNEP's youth and children program, please visit: http://www.unep.org/Tunza/ About the United Nations Environment Programme (UNEP)Created in 1972, UNEP represents the United Nations' environmental conscience. Based in Nairobi, Kenya, its mission is to provide leadership and encourage partnership in caring for the environment by inspiring, informing, and enabling nations and peoples to improve their quality of life without compromising that of future generations.

For more information, please contact: Ms. Morgan StreckerUNEP UNESCO YouthXchangeTel : + 33 1 44 37 30 35Email : mstrecker@unep.frWebsite: www.youthXchange.net

Check out my blog on the environment. Its just started but I want to hear what you have to say

http://youngjamenvironmentalists.blogspot.com/

Human right is what we are born with, no one should ever take that away from us, Human right shouldn't be an issue in our societies.
It should be like an openly practiced and freely used within every human kind in all places around the world.
"We should all be treated equally excluding race, sex, ethnics, and etc...." We should all be like an innocent child enjoying life to its fullest potential knot knowing Human rights exist" Thats what we should be like,
Human right should be there but we shouldn't regard it as an issue, such a shame its an issue and affecting some of us.
:-(
Strong Human Right advocate

Hi all.
i just want to basically share this with you all regarding Tourism,

What do you all think of Toursim ? Is it a good thing?
I quiet Like Tourism, however coming from a country where Tourism is a major industry, i seem to be disliking the idea the fact that, lot is focus is on the positive side of it and not much or nothing has been done to address the negative sides of it.....which is the sades thing for my people....it changes the mentality of people which contributes to other related issues, such as urban drift, violence, crime, breaking's and all

Please share with me what you think

Warm Regards

Joel Kalpram

Concern Citizen

Africa needs more support in other to acheave the MDG's to me a lot need to be done on the part of children development.This years STAND UP EVENT was a joyest one i have ever taking part, in the North/Tamale at Dakpemah primary school children age at 10-14years come out in their numbers to stand up against the poverty in the Northern Region of Ghana/Tamale and it was imprissing if much care is given the children would do more on the part of the acheavement of the MDG's.
Tamale been one of the poorist cities in Ghana and for that matter my group is taking the MDG's campang serious and needs more support to run activities so if any body is intrested in taking part can contact me @ kaabarah@gmail.com/+233-20-8283186.We are planning more projects towards 2008 and we need schools in the developed countries to partner with my here.

There's a lot of volonce going on in Philly. In my opinion the most dangerous part of the city is 52nd and Market street It was not that long ago, that 52nd and Market were hailed as the "Main Street" of West Philly;seemingly it had so much to offer.

Thanks to tit being the state-of-the-art transportation hub, there is plenty of hustle and bustle as folks came from far and wide to take advantage of its unique shops, dynamite restaurants, and classy nightclubs.

But like so many other once-proud sections of the city, this area has suffered a devastating fall from grace.This formerly thriving thoroughfare is pockmarked with boarded-up storefronts, dive bars, careless drug dealers, and roaming bands of lost souls who lurk in the shadow of the Market-Frankford El.
living and growing up in the area and see it deteriorate is very painful i just wish that things can change for the better because is a thurving city of brotherly love where have all the love gone? i would hate to have my childern to grow up in this city because i'm so scraed that something jeapordize their future we need to clean up our acts and our cities

I would like to analize why teens are getting pregnant? There are too many fears that come to my mind when i think of young girls lacking direction. What can I do to stop teens from getting pregnant and focusing on finishing school? Should there be more programs out there, like going to different schools informing young girls to abstain from such activities?What role can a morther play in promoting responsible , and positve social behavior ?

Yesteday, a police officer got shot in his head in a donut shot on 66 and Broad street. I as a kid donot feel safe to walk down the street because i never know whats going to happen,if a police officer can get shot, how can young kids feel safe walking to school and coming back home from school? how can we stop this volince ?

This was my favorite picture from the community walk because I was glad to see that the community gave tribute to the Philadelphia Negro League because a lot of black people do not recieve a lot of credit and for them to have a whole memorial deicated to the Philadelphia Baseball Negro League its a step up from not reconizing black people at all.

BO$$UNIT is a group of young people who are trying to take control of there life with all thats going on. Bo$$unit basically takes advantage of how the world is so high tech nowadays and use technology to express whatever they want. Bo$$unit has realized with technology you can achieve many things, and they just want to show the world that in a way for young people and older people can understand. Bo$$unit produces many products with technology until they get enough money to build a studio that uses technology to do everything and have it open to the public to produce whatever they want to exspress to the world with a little help.

In my point of view our class ''Invisible City'' is about overlooking things that people pass by every day. I learned a lot from being in this class and it gave me a new lens to see things in different ways. I also liked this class because it also gives me a chance to show people how I see things with my photography.
Pictures I personally took were mostly landscape pictures, like pictures of my school and pictures of my community. The music we created was more up to date hip hop type instrumentals. The process of making the music was simple; we used this program called FL studio and put together sounds to make the music we produced.
We took all the projects our class made and we took it to Hershey, Pennsylvania to the PETE&C conference. There we displayed all the things we did in our class for people there to observe. I thought the conference was helpful because people there gave us feedback on what they thought about our work. I would be interested in going again, and if I could go again next year a project I would like to work on more of our music and maybe do some movies.

I would like to comemorate this special day and to anknowledge diffirent languages we speak in the world.
well, i speak my mother tongue, Bislama which is like the National Language in Vanuatu and also fluent English and basic french.

Yumi mas luksave tu se local lanwis blong yumi emi promotem yumi ol man ples Vanuatu mo yumi mas praot long ol wanwan lanwis we yumi save tedei yet. Nomo se yumi no mas foketem blong tijim ol pikinini blong yumi long fiuja blong olgeta tu oli save holem tait iko long fiuja.

Joel